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HEALTHY LOVE

 

PRIVATE MENTORSHIP & VIRTUAL GROUP COURSE

Transformational healing journeys into the heart of understanding, experiencing, and living as healthy love.

 

DO YOU DESIRE A HEALTHY, LOVING PARTNERSHIP?

One in which you are seen, heard, and valued? One in which you get to use your relationship as a vehicle for growth and expansion... while simultaneously feeling safe and loved? 

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WHAT IS YOUR EXPERIENCE NOW

  • Perhaps you keep calling in partners that can’t meet you fully…. ones that keep checking out, or leave your heart hurting.

  • ​Perhaps you are in a partnership now in which your feelings and needs are not truly being tended to…. and your heart is simultaneously hurting and yearning for something more.

  • Perhaps you avoid romantic love altogether because past relationships have left you feeling bruised. 

IF THIS IS YOU, PLEASE KNOW THAT...

  • ​You are not broken. 

  • You do not need to be fixed.

  • You do not have to compromise yourself or your most authentic desires. 

  • ​Your deepest desires are MEANT to be FULFILLED! 


If your deepest desire is for a healthy, loving partnership, in which you are seen, heard, and held FULLY, in which you get to show up as your most authentic self, in which you feel both safe AND expansive… you can have that! 

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HERE'S THE GOOD NEWS...

You can start now. Even if your partner doesn’t want to "work on things". Even if you're single. Healthy Love starts with YOU. 


If you feel unhealthy in love, it’s because you are unconsciously operating from an unhealthy love blueprint. Most likely, you were taught a limiting, false (and in some cases downright abusive) love blueprint. You will repeat this until you repair this. The you that is not fulfilled within your relationships means that a truer, more free, more authentic experience of love is ready to emerge! Follow your yearning. 

ARE YOU READY TO...

  • unwind all you were taught about love that is false, limiting, or no longer in alignment with who you truly are?

  • find your most authentic expression of love?

  • learn how to LIVE as this authentic expression of HEALTHY LOVE.


As you BE IT, you will begin to SEE IT in every relationship. 

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HEALTHY LOVE TRANSFORMATIONAL JOURNEYS

I offer both a private mentorship, and a virtual, group course. Either journey will help you to...


1. Discover the love-wiring that is keeping you trapped in unhealthy, unfulfilling relationship dynamics.

2. Begin to unwind these unhealthy patterns, and bring love and forgiveness to the you that unconsciously played them out.

3. Discover your most authentic, life-affirming love blueprint. How do you love to love? What lights you up? What are your deepest desires and needs? How to stop sacrificing, and start advocating for who you really are, and what you truly deserve.

4. Learn essential tools of being in a healthy relationship with YOURSELF, and how to bring that to a current or future partnership. 

5. Get over fear of confrontation as you learn healthy communication skills that allow you to connect with and advocate for your deepest feelings and needs.

6. End co-dependency by learning how to lean into and trust your own inner wisdom, (and stop laboring on your partner's behalf!).

7. Use astrology to better understand and affirm your most authentic way of loving and being loved.

 
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MY STORY

I grew up with a narcissistic, alcoholic, verbally abusive father figure (bless him, for he was very wounded himself). I learned about love from his distorted love blueprint. 


I learned that love was what I did for the other person. I learned that I was lovable when I didn’t take up much space, when I predicted the other person’s needs, when my actions were pretty and non-confrontational. (And dozens more distorted ideas of love.)


I spent my 20’s unconsciously playing out this wounded love blueprint, and being completely shocked at how awful my romantic relationships were. I spent my 30’s waking up to this distorted blueprint, healing the deep wounds within my being, and learning what love was really about (by first learning how to truly love myself). In my 40’s, I finally… FINALLY, experienced Healthy Love within a romantic relationship. It was/is worth EVERY. SINGLE. STEP!

This is why I am so on fire to help others out in this area. You can heal from ANY distorted love blueprint. I know this to be true to the depths fo my being. You can know of REAL, HEALTHY love. First, within yourself. When you BE it, then you begin to draw it forth in every area of your life, including within romantic partnership. 

And here's a few snaps of me experiencing Healthy Love with my partner of 6 years, Marco...

 
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PRIVATE MENTORSHIP

Are you seeking to work with me within a Private Mentorship setting? Your path begins with a complementary 30-minute consultation. During our time together, I will give you all the details on this 6-month journey, and what you can expect. I will answer any questions you may have, and we will both get clear on if this is the journey for you at this time.


*Before scheduling: please note that this is a significant investment of your time, energy and finances. This is not for the feint of heart. This will require your full attention, and this will transform you. If you are not yet ready for this level of energetic commitment, please check out my free resources below. If you are not able to invest financially in a private journey, please stay tuned for the virtual course version of Healthy Love. Sign up for alerts below. Still a YES for the 1:1? YES! I can’t wait to meet you!

 

HEALTHY LOVE VIRTUAL COURSE

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Healthy Love, Virtual Course, will be going live again in Fall 2021. Sign up below to be first to know!

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FREE RESOURCES

 
 

MY TOP TEN READS FOR HEALTHY LOVE

Whether you are in a relationship, or desire to be in one, whether you are gay, straight, or anything in between, this is a list of essential reads to align you with real, Healthy Love from the inside out. When you find it on the inside, Life will reflect it back to you on the outside. This list ranges from the psychological, to the mystical.

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WHAT PEOPLE SAY ABOUT
WORKING WITH ME...

 
 
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"Through my work with Julie, I was able to navigate one of the most challenging transitions of my entire life with grace and fortitude. I didn’t know it at the time but I was flowing in the deep currents of my first real awakening process. I may not have known it, but Julie did, or rather, she saw that good vibrating through my experience and she lead me powerfully from that knowing. And this is Julie’s ultimate gift, her ability to KNOW on your behalf and to guide you through your curriculum walking in hand-in-hand with your Higher Self and, as she calls them, your “Team in the Unseen.”

Kelly Sue Milano

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PROFESSIONAL BIO

Julie is fascinated with the dance of waking up while ridiculously human. She is a Spiritual Teacher/Counselor, and Healthy Love Mentor.

Julie graduated from the Agape International Spiritual Center, led by Rev. Micheal Bernard Beckwith, where she was formally licensed as a Spiritual Practitioner in 2010. She spent nine years at Agape, deeply immersed in learning and practicing the art of Modern Mysticism- from affirmative prayer, to meditation, to visioning, to Spiritual Principle.

Whether through 1:1 Counseling, Virtual Courses, or her writings, her most sincere offering is always to help others learn how to love their human, while remembering how to access and align with something infinitely greater. 

​She currently resides in Greenville, SC with her wizardly partner, Marco. She's a bit of a tarot freak, and in diligent pursuit of the best taco in the world.